Saturday, September 13, 2003

Prostate Milking

Oldie but good from Texas:



Dear Mistress,
Can You tell me if there are any health risks involved with prostate milking? i heard there could be long-term negative effects.

humbly,
texas slave

texas slave,
What an amusing query! Let Me begin by telling those in the dark what exactly milking entails. It is a process where the Mistress removes ejaculate by prostate massage in order to clear away that pesky testosterone juice you little beasts build up. This works particularly well when one is on a chastity program and not allowed any other form of release. I will also add for those slaves seeking the service of a Professional Dominant that this type of activity is not legal in a commercial exchange and you should not expect a Professional Mistress to perform anything, which may endanger Her career or play space. My experience in this area comes from 10 years of lifestyle experience.

As for lengthy orgasm denial through prostate milking, I have found no conclusive evidence that there are any long-term negative effects. There are a few short term effects including possible erection loss for a period of about 24 hrs, personally I think that this is well needed break for most of you oversexed men who suffer from testosterone poisoning. Also it can be dangerous not to release the fluid buildup in a serious chastity-training program where there is a lot of denial after building just short of orgasm. I believe milking is a very real part of placing someone in chastity for extended periods of time. This is for several reasons. It relieves the semen build-up from celibacy forced by chastity and also helps to eradicate sexual thoughts and urges that are undesired when a slave is to serve in certain capacities. My personal favorite is simply for the entertainment of the Domina. Now on to the juicy stuff…(so to speak)

Prostate massage involves three different organs in the male reproductive system: the prostate gland, the seminal vesicles, and the ampulla. The ampulla actually holds the sperm just prior to ejaculation. The method for finding the prostate gland is quite similar to find the g-spot in a woman. It grows engorged and becomes about the size of a large marble. Start by inserting you middle finger into the rectum and slide it in and up. Slowly as you press up you will feel a small lump. That’s the prostate! Just behind the prostate is a small triangular shaped nodule, this is the bottom portion of the larger seminal vessels, which is where the ejaculate is produced and stored. The ampulla rests just underneath these muscles and this is the area that needs to be massaged to produce desired effects. A well lubricated middle and index finger used with slow, firm pressure to massage this area in a “come hither” motion will slowly help the glands to release the fluid without the build up normally necessary in order to achieve orgasm. When ejaculate appears the best way to empty the urethra is to use firm pressure from a single finger up the underside of the base. This will push the fluid out. I find that if I have My slave consume this fluid it increases his submissive behavior and really reinforces My control over each aspect of his sexuality.

There are many different variations of milking. For instance you might cover the cock and balls with bags of ice to prevent any pleasure from that region during the milking process. Thus making it very clinical and methodical. It will most definitely be necessary to tie the beast to something though as they tend to squirm when you start piling ice on their little friend. There is also the question of when to milk, or how long to wait in between milking. This is determined on an individual basis. Most importantly you want to go as long as possible but catch them before the wet dreams begin. After putting a man in chastity for a little over a week they begin to have a problem with raging hardons, provided they are sexually functional and have a healthy sex drive. You should not go without a milking for more than 3 month of chastity. A nasty little infection can form called prostitus. This is very painful and requires a strict regimen of antibiotics to cure. As much as I enjoy medical play this certainly doesn’t sound like a pervy good time! I find that if you have him masturbate daily right up until just the point of orgasm it keeps the beast deliciously frustrated, yet keenly focused. Keep in mind it is necessary to make him confess any transgression, spontaneous orgasm, or wet dream. I say 6 months chastity for a first offense will definitely make them understand the severity of such actions!


Good Luck and happy milking!

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Pucker Up: A Hands-On Guide to Ecstatic Sex
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Trust, the Hand Book: A Guide to the Sensual and Spiritual Art of Handballing
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