Nipple Torture

for those of you who made the webcam you get an extra little treat of hearing little miss pinky's take on the nipple torture she was subjected to for My pleasure. For thos eof you who missed it you now know why you should pay more attention ;)
bloody butterfly kisses,
Ms. Betka


i watched You as You got dressed for Your web-cam appearance. As usual You looked beautiful and formidable, but You know i just adore the dyke look.... makes me so very hot.
Once everything was positioned just the way You liked, You commanded me to remove my top and bra, and positioned me before the camera. A blindfold was placed over my eyes, and then You proceeded to place a collar around my neck. This collar was attatched to cuffs which effectively restrained my hands behind my back.
i could hear You rummaging through Your box of clips, removing the ones that caught Your fancy. You were laughing as to how my nipples were going to really hurt later. Earlier that morning, You had instructed me to sit on my hands and then gave my nipple a brutal squeeze. It made me stand and move my hands, so then You gave me another squeeze and another until i could remember to keep my hands under my butt. It took a while, but oh, my poor nipples were very tender.
After You had made Your selection, i felt You place a tight clip on my left nipple, then the right. They were both very tight on my already tortured nipples, but then You made them vibrate. now this added to the pain, making the clips bite tighter, but oh yummy, it was definatly beginning to feel good. You were telling me to breathe, take deep breaths. i felt other clips placed around my nipples biting deeply. i believe i may have cried out when You placed the clips on my left nipple, they were very painful, but as time went on, i noticed them less, the pain just blended with all the other delicious sensations i was experiencing.
i felt other clips placed on my breasts, i believe that my breasts and nipples were covered with the clips. You had to keep commanding me to put my head back and at times You had to physically push me backwards... i’m sorry Mistress, that was bad behaviour.. please forgive me.
i felt You come behind me and take both of my breasts in Your hands and squeeze... it hurt so much, i nearly came. Both of my tits were on fire, all the way to my pussy... which of course was very wet by now. You know what a slut i am for You.
You grabbed a handful of the clips on my right breast and told me to take a deep breath. i knew what was coming. You pulled off a bunch and then used the small flogger, You did the same with the right. Now was coming the time that the clamps were to come off my nipples. i knew that this was going to really hurt and i was looking forward to it. You removed the right side, which made me cry out, but it felt so good. You had one hand on my head keeping me in my chair and sitting back and the other squeezing my nipple until i could not catch my breath. Then You removed the left and squeezed. That sent a wave of delicious sensation through my pelvis all the way to my swollen clit.
You then gently directed me to sit with my back to the camera. Large binder clips where placed along my shoulders and down my back.... they felt really good... like a really deep massage. Unfortunatly, it was time to end the web-cam. As usual i had fun in a very painful way.
Mistress, thank You for everything and letting me be part of Your fantastic life..

Your slave
pinky

Presentation on professional domination

Today myself and the business partner extraordinaire will be doing a presentation for a local lifestyle group on Professional Domination. Here is my introduction and a brief description of the presentation. Ill let you all know how it went tomorrow ;) Feel free to post you own questions and comments.
Bloody Butterfly Kisses,
Domina Betka Schpitz


Let me begin by giving you all My slant on professional BDSM and its place in the scene. It is unfortunate but true everyone can not lead an openly kinky lifestyle. This could be someone who has a high profile career with a concern for being outed, someone who has a partner that they truly adore in every way yet cant come to an agreement for a kinky arrangement, seasoned players wanting to explore a new play style or receive specific training for a particularly dangerous or new activity, as well a hundreds of other possibilities. In a community as diverse as our own I am sure you can all see that there are many ways the professional dominant can help lifestyle players as well as vanilla novices explore kinky scenarios. What I am not is a dildo with a whip, this means that people can not simply come in and pay a fee in exchange for having their fantasies met. When interviewing prospective professional slaves I only accept people who’s interests coincide with my own. This means they must be sincere in a desire to submit to me completely during our time together and open to expanding their boundaries. In a professional setting the slave is paying for my time, equipment, playspace and expertise. This allows me to devote the time and energy necessary to building my skills as a Domme by freeing up what would otherwise be time spent working in a vanilla environment. I have a passion for this lifestyle that is only fueled as time goes by, mostly I believe because I can devote a huge part of my daily life to this journey. A lot of people seem to believe that if there is a transaction involved it takes away from the 'magic of BDSM'. I find this terribly close minded and hope to clear up some of those misconceptions by this discussion today.

I have been interested in power exchange for as long as I can remember. I have been actively involved in BDSM/ and DS for about a decade, every since I knew there was a term for my desires. My progression into professional BDSM was a natural one. In 1999 I discovered that I could live my greatest dream. To completely immerse myself into a lifestyle that was not only spiritually fulfilling but also allowed Me the privilege of collecting equipment, wardrobe, and building the playspace of My dreams. I have a background and major interest in psychology and as you all know this is a psychological playground with a myriad of possibilities. I worked under another Mistress for about a year and soon found that our work ethic and the way we approached this lifestyle were vastly different. This helped me make the decision to move on and open my own playspace.Though I was never formally trained perse, I spent the better part of my early years in the scene reading everything I could get my hands on , speaking with community elders, attending workshops, and of course my personal favorite, hands on training. Professional domination as a career choice means that we are constantly learning new techniques, safer cleaning procedures and staying abreast on any current issues surrounding consensual exploration of bdsm.......


(Meeting presentation: Pro-Dominants. What is this thing called Professional Domination? What is it that a Dominatrix does anyhow? "They don’t really work after all, do they? Could be paid to beat somebody! Where do I sign up? 3 different Professional Dominas give you their points of view and answer questions regarding the realities, the work, their passions, and their reasons for choosing their often misunderstood careers. Ms. Ember Burns, Ms. Betka Schpitz and Ms. Vekquin all posses a variety of backgrounds and view points regarding their work and look forward to sharing this information with you. www.rcdc.org)

How to answer a personal ad.

Dear Mistress,
I am new to this and am wondering: How do I approach a potential Mistress
after seeing Her Personals ad?


As a lifestyle Mistress, novice submissives constantly approach Me with no idea
as to the proper procedure for answering a FemDom Personals ad. For the sincere
novice slave, this is definitely a predicament. Below you will find a list of things to
keep in mind and consider when making this exciting first plunge into the “scene”.

First and foremost, always be respectful. “Honey”, “Baby”, and “Darling” are never
appropriate titles for any person you respect, especially a Mistress. Never refer
to any woman as “Mistress” before being given permission to do so, as this can be
seen as disrespectful. Just remember you will never offend anyone with formality.

Always read Her ad and profile carefully and reference mutual interests. These
should be the things that have attracted you to this particular ad. If writing, let
Her know you will be duplicating Her ad with information about yourself. Then follow
her lead, give the same information which she describes in Hers, (i.e. mutual interests, experience level, education, location, etc.) in basically the same
order and format. This will enable Her to learn answers to questions that
are obviously important to Her and give you a format to write your response in an
organized and concise manner. Be sure to include any ways you might be of use
to her in a non-sexual capacity. Remember there are thousands of slaves willing
and able to be of sexual service. Are you a carpenter? Do you enjoy housework?
Enjoy giving long foot massages? Remember any way you can make Her life
easier and more enjoyable, the more likely She is to give you what you need as
far as BDSM goes.

Understand that She cannot read your mind. It is your responsibility to tell Her
what you want and need out of serving Her, what your limits and interests are,
as well as your mental and physical health. This should not necessarily be done
in the initial contact, but be prepared to answer these questions when She asks
or the discussion opens up. This is also the time to let Her know of any extreme or
bizarre compulsions or interests that you are into that may come up later. It is
better to get those more eccentric interests out in the open earlier rather than
later.

NOTE: You should be very careful what you ask for from any Dominant, even
if it’s been your long term fantasy, because you just might get it, and fantasy is
NOT reality.

The most important thing to remember is to be completely honest and up front.
If you are not, She will find out and you will most likely be banished from Her
presence forever. Do not be foolish enough to the think your façade will make
it through her screening process, as it usually does not. Always make necessary
information readily available to Her. A Mistress does not have the time or
interest to interrogate pertinent information from you. If you make this a difficult
task, it is highly unlikely the result will be erotic or fun. Think of BDSM in more than relevant terms. What is hard to you may be soft to Her. Your idea of a painslut could be mild in Her eyes. Are you a masochist? Are you a submissive? Both? In what proportions? Are you a natural slave or a freeman who wants to serve his Dominant? Are you truly submissive or a man who enjoys “letting go” on occasion? If you want erotic pain, do you want it light or heavy or in-between? And what do those words mean? What’s heavy to you might be light to Her. Try to describe what you want by reference to shared common, painful experiences from sports or
wherever. In closing, keep in mind that psychos are not only male. There are some sick and evil people out there and if you are restrained all your “manly strength” will do nothing for you. When you do get to meet a Dominant, make sure FIRST
that She believes in Safe Words. Then, set up a Safe Call for yourself... and let
Her know you’ve done so. Do not let your little head put you into a dangerous
situation.

Bloody Butterfly Kisses,
Domina Betka Schpitz

Always a pleasure keeping this little piggie in line. I was a sweaty mess here!

Nasty Dream

I had the hottest dream last night. Some parts are hazy so Ill just fill in the blanks.

Well it started out with Me getting all lubed into a very tight fitting black and blue police officers dress made out of latex. I was standing in a vast shower that was all stark white tiles. There was so much light in there I could practically see Myself in this latex dress. It was very tight and low cut, with a knee length skirt...just like I like My latex. After it was on I turned to find a wall length mirror which I utilized to admire My shape in this sexy outift. I shined and pranced and eventually couldn’t help but get under the water. There must have been a dozen water spouts in this party shower. ( In My dreams the shower is always big enough for several women) Now this particular dream was strange because it was a man who showed up in the shower with Me. I was relishing the hot steamy water when all of the sudden I felt something/someone licking My leg. I looked down to see this muscly beast of a man staring up at Me from in between My feet, licking up the stocking seam tattooed on the back of My legs. Well I immediately kicked the beast and reprimanded him for interrupting My private time. Chastising him for placing his mouth on Me without permission. Well to My great pleasure this beast was on a mission, he had come to beg permission to worship My huge cock. Chuckling I told him to get his uniform ( apparently I knew him ;) He crawled out and I remained in the shower, watching the water skim down over My cleavage. I was lost in the latex and water when My little whore returned....and yummy he was in a full latex police uniform as well with a special nightstick....it has a suction cup on it so I positioned the cocksucking little pig in front of the wall length mirror, unzipped the zip-thru crotch on his pants and had him straddle the monstrous night stick. The suction cup held it in place while I teased him, allowing him to almost lick My latex covered ass but staying just far enough out of reach......then the only thing I remember is having him suck Me off while pumping that nightstick in and out of his own ass......So all I want to know is who is this latex pig and when can I act out this fantasy for real?

Back from SF

This past week was too much naughtiness ;) if there is such a thing.....
The week started with a model/photographer meet and greet at Madame-S. This was a good mix of old friends and new, lots of corsets and latex. Later that evening was a trip over to a cute little bar called Jezebels for some drinks and entertainment. Lots of photos taken here and time spent with Perry and Yasmin. (perrygallagherphotography.com www.mistressling.com) The ball on Friday was splendid. Everyone was well dressed and kinky, My absolute favorite combination. We arrived at the Harrison location (www.lewdbrothers.com ) to squeeze into an oh so tight limo ride. The night was spent chatting, and networking with kinky beauties. It was hott!The rest of the week was spent getting blowjobs at the Power Exchange and chasing Trannies at Trannyshack! Gorey details to follow.....