Charming email.

I often see Mistresses posting emails from their bad boy files and I relate to the sheer headache of it all. I receive funny emails but generally just delete the crap and move on.
A beauty arrived in my inbox this morning that I just had to share. I do not understand why anyone would consider this a proper, respectful introduction and inquiry.
Boys... when you are writing any person you do not know, particularly a dominant woman, please keep in mind that even if they enjoy sex, the probability of them wanting to hear the specifics about your sexcapades is slim to none.
On another note, it is nice to say hello and thank them for their time before just launching into your little fantasy ( Particularity if you are writing a professional in any line of work. No one owes you a response, so give them a reason to want to help you.)

"Is there anything you could tell me about latex storing and wearing like how and were do i store my latex clothing and what i should use to keep my skin from maybe chafing or being irritated when i wear it like an oil or cream you could suggest. P.S. I love your photos and the way you look in your outfits i often pleasure myself to them will I stick a well lubed dildo up my ass and fantisize that you are a man pleasuring me from the back and just going to town on my well-firmed arse I wsih you could be there to SEE!!!"

I wish I could be there to wash his filthy mouth out with soap and lock that piece of gristle up until he realizes how to properly engage a woman.

Email acting up.

Something is going on with my email so if you wrote me in the last couple of days I may not have received it. Please resend to betkaschpitz @ gmail.com (without the spaces).

vacation home in Oregon

I am looking to get away for a few weeks this summer to do some writing, as well as some outdoor play with a few of my favorite boys. I need a vacation rental that is remote(within a couple hours of Portland would be best), by some sort of natural water and reasonably priced for an extended stay. Do you know of such a place? If someone owns property somewhere perhaps I could put my minions to work doing landscaping, cleaning and doing property repairs in exchange. All I know is I need to get out of the city and fast. I am not looking to spend a lot of money, the location is more important than the decadence of the rental property.

Female lead town in China!

Now this is exactly what needs to happen to correct the testosterone poisoning that has befallen our lovely planet. We need to balance the patriarchal choke hold the world government has on us with a complete restructuring of the way we do things. Ladies, it is time to take the planet back, these boys sure are mucking things up. (Thanks Spanks!)

"Women's town" to put men in their place

Thu Apr 26, 9:04 AM ET

Chinese tourism authorities are seeking investment to build a novel concept attraction -- the world's first "women's town," where men get punished for disobedience, an official said Thursday.

The 2.3-square-km Longshuihu village in the Shuangqiao district of Chongqing municipality, also known as "women's town," was based on the local traditional concept of "women rule and men obey," a tourism official told Reuters.

"Traditional women dominate and men have to be obedient in the areas of Sichuan province and Chongqing, and now we are using it as an idea to attract tourists and boost tourism," the official, surname Li, said by telephone.

The tourism bureau planned to invest between 200 million yuan ($26 million) and 300 million yuan in infrastructure, roads and buildings, Li said.

"We welcome investors from overseas and nationwide to invest in our project," he added.

The motto of the new town would be "women never make mistakes, and men can never refuse women's requests," Chinese media have reported.

When tour groups enter the town, female tourists would play the dominant role when shopping or choosing a place to stay, and a disobedient man would be punished by "kneeling on an uneven board" or washing dishes in restaurant, media reports said.

The project, begun in the end of 2005, was expected to take three to five years to finish."

Zero Gravity flight

I want to go! That is amazing that Stephen Hawking is going up, he deserves it.http://www.cnn.com/2007/TECH/space/04/26/hawking.flight.ap/

10 qualities of a good submissive

Here is another assignment from my boy (321's) journal last week. 1) HONEST - The submissive must always be truthful in his word and actions with his Dominant. He never lies.

2) TRUSTWORTHY - The Dominant must always feel that she can trust and rely on the words and actions of the submissive. His word is his bond.

3) ATTENTIVE - The submissive must focus his thoughts and emotions on the Dominant, and knows that the quality of his submission is determined by the amount of time he holds her in the forefront of his concentration. He pays attention.

4) ACTIVE - The submissive takes an active involvement in his submission, and does not rely on the Dominant for all direction. He takes action.

5) INTELLIGENT - The submissive is intelligent and thoughtful, always trying to bring both high quality analytic and intuitive thinking to the relationship. He is smart.

6) DETAIL-ORIENTED - The submissive sweats the details and ensures that even the little things are addressed. He know that Godddess is in the details.

7) OBEDIENT - The submissive does as he is told without question or hesitation. He obeys.

8) ELEGANT - The submissive seeks to be attractive and graceful in appearance, speech, and movement. He pleases the eye.

9) SELFLESS - The submissive thinks nothing of himself and puts the needs and desires of the Dominant above all. He puts her first, always.

10) ENTERTAINING - The submissive strives to be a rewarding part of the Dominants life, and brings his capacity to go beyond rote obedience to the relationship. He pleases.

My favorite DJ of all time.

I am quite chatty today... Here is another public service announcement: Bassnectar has a new cd out. He is my favorite DJ of all time, hands down. The man is a musical genius with a powerful message. I like to listen to it while I do Yoga outside or hoop and I have had more mental orgasms to this music than I have had with all of my vibrators combined. If you love to shake your shit, check it. He just released a new album and is on tour, I want to fly to some little town in middle America and see him. I wonder what those shows are like.

Rubber Indoctrination 1,000 miles away

I like to have my subjects keep a journal so I can review their progress and response to training. It allows me to gain insight into their experiences very quickly. Here are a couple of excerpts from a boy I am doing some distance training with.

April 17th
"My fetish has always been for leather. The quintessential Domina fabric. I adore all kinds of fetish clothing, love leather. Rubber? Okay - but doesn't float my boat...
Until.

Until SHE came into my life.

And now I am thinking about rubber. It's appeal. The visit to DeMask. The salesperson, responding that I needed an item made of rubber: "Well - rubber is all we sell.."

Rubber.

Will she addict me to this fabric? What is the process of rubber enslavement?

Is she taking over my mind?"


(Taking over a slaves mind is never my goal. I adore probing into and expanding areas of their psyche, but I want to open them up. The last thing I want to do is shut them down. There are to many apathetic people sleeping at the wheel as it is. My goal is to help them center and live in the present moment even if it is painful. This teaches them to serve themselves, as well as my own interests. The more centered and balanced they are, the more pleasant my life becomes.)


Here is his journal entry just two days later. With no further contact from me.

"Rubber Immersion Indoctrination:
Can't stop thinking about it.

I thought I was too experienced, too jaded to find another fetish. Too locked in to the grooves that my own desires have etched in my brain over the years. Nothing new to wonder about. Or experience.

Until I had the privilege of HER presence.

I need to rubber immersed. Total rubber immersion. I want an outfit that covers my entire body. Rubber boots. Skin-tight rubber pants. Rubber underwear - with rubber inflatable butt plug. Rubber top (I saw one at Demask that I adored - no sleeves. You cross your arms in front, like a straight jacket. Fiendishly kinky). Rubber hod - with inflatable rubber ball gag. Rubber posture collar. Rubber harness.

Rubber. Rubber. Rubber.

Being made to kneel and sway on the floor. Straightjacketed. Mouth filled with the taste of the rubber ball gag. Sightless. Rubber ear coverings muffling all sound. The room temperature turned up. Sweat glistening on my skin, the smell of my own body, total sensory deprivation. The pain in the legs from kneeling.

Rubber. The smell of rubber. The feel of rubber on my skin. The bitter taste of rubber on my tongue.

Rubber enslavement.

Minutes hours how long? spent on the ground, immersed in rubber.

The occasionally pump by a strong hand that I cannot see - but is more real, more concrete than anything in my life. Squeeze pump. The butt plug grows. I moan. And sway.

Another squeeze. The ball gag swells. I gag. Can she hear me?!? Terror and fear. The shattering of a soul in a million pieces.

How long?

Rubber. Rubber. Rubber.

How long will she keep me like this?

Rubber. Rubber. Rubber.

Until I am addicted.

Until I learn."

He is off to a fine start. I have not put any effort into cultivating his rubber fetish, so I can't wait to see what happens next week.

It sure is good to be a Pervy Queen.

The truth about our food...

"This documentary exposes a vast conspiracy to contaminate and control the world's food supply through genetic engineering of food crops. Leading scientists and activists present the facts that you need to know about genetically modified organisms (GMOs). The methods used to genetically engineer plants are imprecise and extremely dangerous. Eighty percent of food sold in North America already has ingredients made of GMOs that have not been adequately tested for safety. This program presents all the facts about this alarming controversy and features the most credible bio tech / agriculture authorities in the world today. " ( About 6 mins long) I am so pleased I prefer eating pussy.

New site and nerdy Betka strikes again....

I spent yesterday afternoon rewriting my site to reflect my new goals. I would love your feedback. Also when you have the time, please have a look and help me with the grammatical errors. Pretty please... with lube on top?

In the meantime, check out this video about Mars. It shows how the planet grew and created new land. Very interesting...

Closing Explicit Site Soon.

Now is a good time to let you know that I will stop uploading new content to my explicit section in May. I will stop new memberships soon, though I am going to leave the archive up and available through June. It has been an amazing project that has introduced me to fabulous writers, play partners, and kinky play styles. It has pushed me to constantly upgrade my equipment and experiences for several years now. The best thing has been exposing some of the darker sides of sensuality to people who were too afraid to explore it without a visual guide. It has never really been about the money for me, the money buys me new latex and gear to shoot with and enjoy. The experiences I have with my play partners as a result of that are what I have done it for.

I decided a few months ago that I do not want to "have" to play in order to produce content. I also think it is silly anyone with $25 can peer into some of my most intimate moments, even people I don't connect with energetically. I felt like the world needed a few more sexual outlaws to put it out there. I wanted to inspire people to feel secure in their bedrooms that anything they do with another consenting adult is nothing to be ashamed of. I have done enough of that. I am an exhibitionist and an artist, but I am not that much of a capitalist. People are going to have to earn that privilege, not just "swipe their card". I would rather share those things with people who deserve it. I am going to take the government, their fucked up obscenity laws and misinformation out of my sexual equation.

I have cut back on my shoots and decided that my time and energy is being wasted with this. I have some other things that take precedence, namely people I love and places I need to enjoy. I have been spending more time outside, doing Yoga and biking, learning new arts and simply enjoying the spring. I feel more centered than I have in my entire life. All I am doing is slowing down, getting rid of useless distractions and paying attention to what really makes me happy.

I will have some interesting erotic offerings through the end of the year (including a fine art project with Steen), but if you want the hardcore stuff you better get it while it's hot. I am ready to evolve.

Safely in LA.

If you need to contact me for any reason that is not an emergency please wait until Tuesday. Life is loco down here. I will be hosting The Eagle's monthly rubber night so if you are in town, bring it.

La La land

I have had an amazing week and now I am getting ready to head to LA. I will be MC'ing rubber night for the LA Eagle. It is always weird for me leaving Portland but I am looking forward to seeing Steen and a few close friends. Pussycat found the most interesting video on sound resonance during a research project last week. Keep in mind this is only rice being poured onto the speaker while different sound frequencies are being played. ( It is a little over a minute long.) I guess the secret is out, we are nerds who research stuff like sound resonance. Perhaps I will start including some of our non-sexual science projects here. I was surprised by the lack of response to the 2012 video. I am guessing it lost some of you with the quotes. Don't be discouraged by them, there are not many and there is some powerful information in the imagery in that video. I hope you will invest the time to watch it. Now without further ado:

please watch this.

There is a lot of knowledge here.

New Phone, glass blowing and sport fucking.

In my quest to lighten the workload, I am changing my phone number. The new number is listed in the contact section of my site so please take note if you intend to call. In other exciting news, one of my boys sent me information on a glass blowing school in White Salmon! I plan to attend in the next couple of months so I can begin work on sacred sexuality tools and a top secret art project. You will have to stay tuned in to hear the full details, but I assure you it is worth the wait. I decided to take up glass blowing, as opposed to welding. Taking classes and changing goals is all about personal evolution. It keeps me fresh, focused and feeling electric with anticipation. I feel stagnant if I do the same thing for too long. Change is a familiar face. Now onto the sport fucking... I have been ravenous for the last three weeks and I need to find a decent stunt cock for summer duty. Pigs take note: cock shots and sexual applications via the web will be ignored. I am just sharing ...not inviting you to apply yourself.

Gnostic studies

I am starting a 10 week course next week on practical application of Alchemy through Kabbalah, sexuality and meditation. (I can not wait to see how that translates into my future kinky adventures.) My interest in mystic theology has been rekindled in a big way, I forgot how much I enjoy pouring through ancient text. Thanks again to everyone who sent the links a few weeks ago, they were just the kick start I needed.

Girls gone wild pig gets assfucked by the govt!

Woohoo!I hope he gets wrench raped by a "bear" named Tiny in the slammer. His antics are repugnant and someone's uncle had better get even.

Fluoride is not your friend (Bikram Yoga is)

Fluoride accumulates in the pineal gland. It is a toxin. Germans and Russians used fluoride to make prisoners 'stupid and docile'.I am doing more research and am interested in hearing about any interesting sites you might have come across on this subject. In other news, I went to my first Bikram Yoga class yesterday. That is an experience and a true test of determination. They do not want you to leave the room and it is a 90 minute class... in a 104 degrees... with about 40% humidity. Whoa. Sadomasochist that I am, I am going back tomorrow. This is sure to make Burning Man a piece of cake.

Favorite yoga sites?

I want to start doing yoga outside in the mornings, so I am looking for interesting resources. Where my yogi's at?

pics by pussycat

Here are some pics from before my session this morning. Pussycat is working on her photography skills. Not bad for my little amateur...

Pics from this afternoon...

I did an impromptu shoot with Mr. Ronabell just for kicks this afternoon. Thought I should put something sassy up since I got such a strong response to the last images. These were just quick and dirty snapshots, just like I like it. Have I mentioned today how much I love being bald again?

A little catching up...

Ok peeps, there is no need for concern really. If my messages seem short and creepy its because I was in a hurry and trying to communicate something to a few specific people. The pics yesterday freaked some people out because they thought the third eye piercing was much bigger than it was. I assure you I did not lose my mind and poke a big hole in my face. Since when is a dominatrix not allowed to love blood anyway? It was a tiny little piercing with lots of fresh blood. (It looks big cause I stuck my finger there to stop the blood.) Some of you will understand that and some won't, I left the photos for those that do. In other news, I have been MIA for the last little bit cause I was working on my studio and then I got a new electric bike. This is the best thing I have done for myself in a long time. After sitting behind my desk for the last few years it feels amazing to be out riding everyday. I am getting back into shape and meeting some great people out there. We wait through a long, rainy winter here for the beautiful spring to come. Then the entire city blooms and everyone comes alive. I have decided to spend more time enjoying that this summer. I hope some other internet addicts will do the same, it has been liberating to say the least.

Third Eye Piercing